From feeling alone or misunderstood in relationships to real closeness.

Therapy for people who want more honest, secure and emotionally alive relationships.

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You want to stop…

  • Keeping people at a distance while craving closeness — appearing strong but feeling isolated and lonely

  • Not being fully honest or authentic — protecting yourself through charm, control or secrecy which sabotages real connection

  • Giving too much — ending up unappreciated, unseen or drained

  • Lashing out or becoming prickly when emotions run high — pushing others away and damaging trust

  • Overthinking every interaction — never quite believing you’re truly loved or safe

You’re ready to…

  • Face what blocks closeness — build warm, mutual relationships that feel emotionally alive

  • Be honest with yourself and others – connect from a place of authenticity

  • Honour your needs and wellbeing — give and receive in balance, grounded in real self-worth

  • Strengthen emotional capacity — stay present and connected through intense feelings, deepening trust and intimacy

  • Feel secure in yourself — cultivate loving, meaningful relationships without fear

I’m Sam.

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I work with people who feel caught in painful patterns in their relationships and with themselves — wanting closeness but often feeling misunderstood, alone, defensive, shut down or unsure how to be themselves with others. You may know something isn’t working, even if you can’t yet see how to change it.

I’m deeply committed to this work because I’ve seen how therapy can create real, lasting change — not just insight but a different way of relating to yourself and others. When we work together, I bring care, focus and clinical depth to help you understand what’s driving your difficulties and work through what keeps you stuck. We focus on these patterns directly, so new ways of relating become possible.

I have over ten years’ experience helping people with low self-esteem, difficulties in close relationships and the effects of complex trauma. From the very first session, we work actively to clarify what’s creating your distress and what needs to shift, so you can begin to feel more secure, grounded and connected — both internally and in your relationships.

Many of my clients have tried other therapies before, but found that talking alone didn’t lead to the change they were hoping for. My approach focuses on the emotional patterns and protective responses that disrupt closeness — whether that takes the form of over-giving, pulling away, people-pleasing or strong emotional reactions in close relationships. By working directly with these patterns, therapy can help you build genuine self-worth, stay present in close relationships without losing yourself and experience relationships that feel more open, steady and secure.

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How to get started

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1. Free Call

Book a free 15-minute introductory chat

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2. Decide

We’ll work out on the call whether we are a good fit

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3. Book Appointment

We’ll schedule an initial session, then meet weekly or fortnightly, in person or online. 

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Specialisms

Low self-esteem in relationships

Change the inner patterns that undermine self-worth, closeness and emotional security

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Difficulties in Relationships

When closeness feels hard, confusing or painful — and familiar patterns keep holding you back

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